Relationship Confusion

One of the most interesting ideas about relationships and dating is the infamous label. Where did the label come from? In my opinion labels belong on soup cans and envelopes, not on relationships. Sure I can see how some would be labeled as boy-friend/girl-friend, that has been around for a long time. The labels I don't understand is the "Dating" and "Talking"label. Those of you who have kids probably have heard it before when your son or daughter corrects you for calling a friend they're boy-friend or girl-friend after inviting them over to watch a movie or along to dinner. They instantly say "NO!!! were just dating." ,or "NO!!! Were just talking, God u don't understand." Well Personally I'm 23 years old and I don't understand myself. Maybe I'm Old fashion but I think if your at the stage of kissing and spending a lot of time with some one your at the stage of  the significant other, Most people whom are older refer that to be the dating. You are dating that person you are boyfriend/girlfriend. But a lot of younger people even some my age think that's a different stage completely. I still don't understand how that works it just doesn't make sense to me. Another questionable aspect of dating is people and learning there types. By types I mean the infamous saying "He/she is not my type" for those who know your type and who have found your type and are still with your type, that means the type you think u like is the correct type, Those of you who say He/She is not my type but the type you are used to, "your type" perhaps that isn't your type, so in effect your dating people who aren't your type already. For example, a girl that goes for a guy only because he looks good, he may be an ass , he could even just ignore her completely but she still tries to date him and when they do it doesn't work, she goes through 3 or 4 of the same types of guys that she THINKS are her type when really her real type isn't what she thought . One of the reasons i post this is because I'm one of the guys that get over looked, I'm a nice guy I'm not bad looking i don't think, but the girls are to bent on trying to find a perfect guy, they begin to think the perfect personality aspect is only found in movies so they just find the perfect looking guy. 

For what ever side you may be on whether your the person that has been over looked or the one who has over looked many, Some day you will come to realize your type and when that day comes you will find some one wonderful, don't just settle for some one!